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MISCONCEPTIONS ABOUT LOVE WE FAIL TO ACCEPT

If you love someone romantically, you can still be wrong as a romantic partner for them. You can deeply love someone and they can deeply love you, but a relationship between you both can still be a disaster. This doesn’t mean “it wasn’t true love,” it just means that at this time, coupledom between the two of you is not meant to be.

Here are two misconceptions about love we fail to accept:

You “Just Know” When It’s Right

One of the biggest misconceptions about love is that you “just know” when you find the “right one.” The mentality frees you of all responsibility in your love life… you don’t need to work on yourself or prepare for love, just go about your business and someday the right one will drop into your life and you’ll just know. In order to fall in love with the right person, you need to be in the right place emotionally. If you don’t find love from within, you will never be able to let it in from the outside. No one likes to talk about this part though because this takes work, and the idea of some perfect person just entering your life and being the other half of your circle, the yin to your yang,  is just so much easier, and far more romantic.

Love Conquers All 

Love is for sure a beautiful thing. Love is also necessary in order for a relationship to last, but it’s not enough. Sometimes two people just don’t fit, it’s unfortunate, but it’s just a fact. While love is very powerful and capable of conquering some things, it isn’t always strong enough to conquer others, like different backgrounds, values, goals, visions for the future for example. Most of all, love simply cannot conquer incompatibility.

 

 




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