LOOK OUT FOR YOURSELF AND LOVE SOMEONE
Its quite surprising how the proposed Cinderella story which we have always thought would have a “happily ever after” ending suddenly goes topsy-turvy and it seems like love never happened. In that moment of stressed climax, we find ourselves in doubt and keep asking ourselves in disbelief ” Did it ever exist?”
Well, it did. Sometimes you might need to look inward to identify why that love story went sour especially when there seems not to be any apparent reason behind it. In cases like this, sometimes, it could have been just the feeling of low self-esteem, being undeserving or inability to find anything good in yourself.
A happy and healthy relationship occurs between two people who are comfortable with themselves, in addition to one another. True Love only develops after making your own happiness a top priority. Self-love leads to thorough self-awareness and healthier, more realistic aspirations of desires in a significant other. Focus on you.
To be honest, you cannot give out what you don’t have. An unhappy person can’t truly make her partner happy. Neither can she value the sense of having a happy and healthy relationship.
I recently realized that you attract what you are. You know that feeling when meeting somebody and you instantly have chemistry? That instant, magnetic connection that’s overwhelming and difficult to ignore? The one that stimulates all your senses but cannot be explained?
If you are awesome, you will attract awesomeness. If you are a mess, you will attract a mess. Work on your issues to become self-aware about where you have room for improvement.
Love is not a matter of choice not chance. Make it clear in your heart that you deserve love and happiness and it will find its way right back to you. The status of “in a relationship” should not reflect a dependency on someone else, but rather, the power of togetherness.